The Big Sick (2017)

Film details

Comedy · Drama · Romance · Michael Showalter · 1h 59min

Synopsis

Pakistan-born comedian Kumail Nanjiani and grad student Emily Gardner fall in love but struggle as their cultures clash. When Emily contracts a mysterious illness, Kumail finds himself forced to face her feisty parents, his family's expectations, and his true feelings.

Verdict

Adult romantic comedy exploring the tension between family tradition and personal choice.

In-depth analysis

The Big Sick builds its comedy and drama upon a genuine cultural conflict: a Pakistani-American comedian who confronts the religious expectations of his Muslim family upon falling in love with an American woman. The film has the merit of treating all its characters with humanity — neither ridiculing the parents' faith nor transforming romantic love into an absolute dogma. The screenplay honestly navigates the real tensions of cultural assimilation and generational clash. When Emily falls into a coma, the medical crisis functions as a character revealer: Kumail must decide between the comfort of family tradition and the risk of the love he chose. The work does not resolve the conflict with ease nor automatically condemn parental authority. For parents: sexual content is moderate (suggested scenes, intimacy outside of marriage treated as the norm), language includes frequent profanity typical of stand-up comedy, and there is social alcohol consumption. It is adult entertainment that poses legitimate questions about identity and belonging, but requires viewer maturity. Not recommended for adolescents.